Sep
22

STIMMING Or, why I can’t always keep up masking… And that’s okay.

STIMMING OR, WHY I CAN’T ALWAYS KEEP UP MASKING… AND THAT’S OK. AUSTISTIC PEOPLE STIM BECAUSE THEY FEEL THINGS SO DEEPLY…  I don’t always see eye-to-eye with my mother, the parent of an autistic young adult woman (hello), but one thing we will be prepared to firmly agree on and publicly declare is that vaccines […]

May
24

5 reasons why would I go to an LGBT Pride carnival as an autistic introvert

5 REASONS WHY I’D GO TO LGBT PRIDE CARNIVAL AS AN AUTISTIC INTROVERT  IF YOU CAN DEVELOP GREAT COPING MECHANISMS AND YOU HAVE REASONS FOR STEPPING OUT INTO THE EXTROVERTED NEUROTYPICAL WORLD ONCE IN A WHILE, WHY SHOULDN’T YOU?     Visit the Youtube channel   Once when I was in Riva Del Garde, Italy, […]

May
08

Over analysis and resistance to curveballs

OVER ANALYSIS AND RESISTANCE TO CURVEBALLS WHAT DOES THIS LOOK LIKE IN YOUR LIFE? One weekend I went to the library to meet with some friends and do some work. When I got there it was clear that one of my friends was needing to chat about something that was difficult for her at that […]

Apr
20

I’m autistic, so what?

I’M AUTISTIC, SO WHAT? WHAT DOES BEING AUTISTIC MEAN IN GENERAL TERMS? So, I’m autistic. It means I interact with the world differently compared to non autistic people. So what?  Being autistic means that a person has differences in thinking, feeling, socialising and communication to varying degrees depending on where they fall on the autistic […]

Apr
06

Creativity for introverts and sensitive souls

CREATIVITY FOR INTROVERTS AND SENSITIVE SOULS DREAM YOURSELF TO THE FUTURE..  Did you get overwhelmed in an open plan office at work? Were you tired at school in the afternoon lessons from doing a lot of peopling and eating all that shite in the canteen? Did you need a bit longer to digest information, and […]

Apr
02

Setting creative goals by writing the future experience you desire

SETTING CREATIVE GOALS WRITING THE FUTURE EXPERIENCE YOU DESIRE It’s not very exciting, but last year I had a problem with one of my outside drains and was advised by the company who unblocked it for me to inspect all of them. This was to ensure that all the drains had all been correctly installed […]

Apr
02

When I’m a petrol engine and you’re diesel

WHEN I’M A PETROL ENGINE AND YOU’RE DIESEL A DIFFERENCE IN COMMUNICATION & PROCESSING SPEED ISN’T A LACK OF FEELING… When was the last time you asked what, why, and when, to fully appreciate and listen to what another human being was saying? When I was about seventeen years old I worked Front of House […]

Mar
26

Am I a dull, uncreative, boring dipshit?

AM I A DULL,  UNCREATIVE, BORING DIPSHIT? IS THAT RIGHT? Have you ever felt ashamed for something someone reprimanded you for, because there was an ongoing pattern to this disapproval in your life, which made you feel less than?       I consider myself to be a fairly self aware and reflective person, but […]